Tuesday, August 26, 2008

A cupful of friends.

How to know if people around you are real? If people can be weighed or measured then, it must be easier than counting from 1-10. But, it's not the case.

We definitely can't avoid to meeting people in our lives. They come in different backgrounds - some are cute, loud, funny, scary, ugly, smart etc.... But come to think of it, why the hell it's important to know who are real or not? I think it becomes important when you have fully given your trust to them and has shared a part of yourself - thoughts, tragedies and happiness to these people. It matters most when you see yourself in them.

Getting to know the fake from who are real is not an easy task. It's even complicated, to actually keep track of them. And why would you do that?

Honestly, just let them live their own ways and in so doing live yours. One can always be open minded and accepting but not tolerating.

I for one once felt being betrayed by a friend. The best thing to do is move on. Just think of the fun things you had with that person or persons and just live your life without them but never closing doors. I thought to myself that I am not perfect and so I shouldn't be cynical and be mean. I just told myself that I can't be a friend to everyone but can always be civil with them. I thought to myself that I can be happy with some few friends and not everyone.

Grrrr mag code review na sad mi with my project lead. Ciao!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yeah, Gen...i agree with ur thoughts...fake or real ur friends are i think it's better to be genuine to oneself...same with you i was once betrayed by a friend but i just told my self...at least i have been honest and real to her its her concience anyway...NICE ARTICLE...keep it up...

let's enjoy life...

Sara said...

Nice post. I recently had a friend really let me done and have found I need to just move on. It hurts but sometimes it is for the best in the longrun to save your sanity.

xgenesis007 said...

Thanks Sara. I guess it must be the right thing to do.